Research, including the famous work of the Gottman Institute, suggests that these three behaviors are the strongest predictors of a split within a year:
You are using sex (or the lack thereof) as a weapon or a shield to avoid emotional closeness. Can You Turn It Around? Research, including the famous work of the Gottman
Non-sexual touch (hugging, hand-holding) also vanishes. A sexless marriage often feels like a slow
A sexless marriage often feels like a slow fade into roommate status. While it’s a common struggle, it can also be a major red flag for the future of your relationship. According to research and the AZMATH perspective, you can often predict a divorce up to a year before it happens by watching for specific shifts in behavior and intimacy. The "Roommate Syndrome" Warning The "Roommate Syndrome" Warning Treating your partner with
Treating your partner with disrespect, sarcasm, or eye-rolling. This is the #1 predictor of divorce.
One partner completely shuts down or walks away during difficult conversations rather than engaging.
You’re stressed, tired, or have a medical issue, but you still like each other.
