Relational Ambivalence: Should I Stay or Should I Go? (Part II)
It’s loving the freedom of your career but missing the safety of your old one. It’s wanting to be seen and known while desperately wanting to hide behind resistance . The Hidden Benefits of the "In-Between" ambivalence
The Art of Standing Still: Why Ambivalence Isn't Indecision Ambivalence often gets a bad rap. We’re told to "be decisive," to "pick a side," or that "if it's not a hell yes, it's a no." But ambivalence isn't just being unsure or hesitant ; it’s the high-voltage experience of simultaneously feeling two intense, opposing ways about the same thing. Relational Ambivalence: Should I Stay or Should I Go